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Interesting essay, but I disagree on several points.

There are psychological differences between men and women that are much larger than the ones you mention. The biggest is also the most obvious: sexual attraction! Men are significantly more likely to desire women, and visa versa. You also have less banal differences that are significant in magnitude, such as occupational interests (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19883140/). Also (most relevant to this article) is the differences between what men and women want out of a relationship (https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/behavioral-and-brain-sciences/article/sex-differences-in-human-mate-preferences-evolutionary-hypotheses-tested-in-37-cultures/0E112ACEB2E7BC877805E3AC11ABC889). The effect sizes for these differences are all quite large

Cultural differences in personality are actually magnified the more egalitarian the society tries to be.

While non-traditional gender roles can work, they are much less likely to (e.g. rate of divorce for couples where the wife is the primary earner are a fair bit higher than where the man is the primary earner).

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